I was so mean today…

OK, my usual friendly-critics would say: Waddya mean by “today”? Thought that’s second nature :roll:

But seriously, today I was at the Kwan Im Hood Cho Temple in Waterloo Street near lunch time and braved the hordes who also came to visit the temple.

As is my usual practice, after my visit I give a very little something to the small handful of tissue sellers usually milling around.

And as usual, there are also ”legit” solicitors for donation for this or that organised charity. And invariably I want to tell them that it may be better if they help those who are obviously down-n-out and needy right be4 their eyes than to boost some cause where the beneficiary is usually anonymous to both “solicitors” and donors.

And up to before today, I had always managed to supress my urge to volunteer this bit a gratuitous advice.

Alas, I don’t know what got into me. Perhaps I found the uncle who asked me for a donation for sick children irritating. Perhaps I was feeling spiteful. Whatever!

Like a channeler I found myself unable to stop myself from responding to his plea with “Uncle, look around you! There are plenty of people needing immediate charity.”

The poor man must have been somewhat taken aback but he managed to shoot back: “But these children also need your charity.”

I just smiled and thanked him. And walked away, mentally berating myself for being so mean as to deliver such a cheap and pointless shot. :(

Resolution for the rest of the year: Have better over control my tongue!

Where’s home?

To end every year of the Chinese calendar, I participate in two family re-unions. Reason: I have 7 brothers with whom I share the same father and one sister with whom I share both parents.

After my grandfather passed away in 1986, my father for reasons best known to himself initiated the mammoth re-union dinner for the extended family. Which was never on Chinese New Year eve itself but on a night close enough. That’s a nod to the fact that majority of the extended family members already have families and in-laws of their own and their priorities for New Year’s eve might not co-incide with the minority.

The reunion dinners with Dad were always in a vegetarian restaurant — mostly at Kingsland (now gone with the wind as has the complex where it once was — Albert Complex, now renamed OG) but occasionally there were deviations, such as once in Coronation Plaza This was because Dad was a full-blown vegetarian.

When he left us in 2001, the extended family wanted to carry on with the reunion dinners, tho with one important change. We forsook vegetarian restaurants: we went from buffet outlets (eg Princess Terrace) to sit-down fare at Old Hongkong one year and Zhou’s Kitchen another year, both at Novena Square.

We might have gone to another restaurant for the latest mammoth reunion but as there were easily 50 of us, even when the full complement is never present, someone thought a potluck at a condo club house might be more economical and relaxed especially now that the extended family includes some restless early primary school kids who are less easy to restrain that babes in arm!

So there we were on Saturday night (Jan 21) at a condo (where No 1 nephew lives) on Dunearn Road with a satay man working overtime to feed the hungry mouths. In addition, there were home fried beehoon Putien style (we are more or less Putienese), chicken wings from Ikea, brocoli and cauliflower vegetarian dish, tofu vegetarian dish, vegetarian fried rice, vegetarian vegetable curry, tradional Cantonese “chai”, Peking duck, pizzas, whole soy sauce chicken from Chinatown, home made Drambuie fruit cake, papaya, Jeyu grapes, white nectarine, bean curd gingko nut soup and Belgian chocolates.

potluck lucky mish mash

Alas, I overlooked to take any pictures of the ecclectic spread but managed too late to take one of what I was eating in my third round, as I listened to my oldest brother explain why he’s still nostalgic for Singapore.

P said: “I’ve been living in Melbourne since 2005 but the longer I’ve been away, the more I miss home. I don’t feel at home unless I’m in Singapore.”

I postulated that it’s because he and wife live with their daughter and family Down Under.

“No,” he replied. “We feel at home when we are there. It’s only during the 3 nights every week when we are in our own house that we feel home-sick.”

Shorthand? Family makes for home and reduces home-sickness when away from Singapore.

I looked around the room as those who share my bloodline or are related to me through marriage cluster in small groups bonding over food and catching up.

Two nephews have relocated from the Middle East; one after 5 years in Egypt; another after 3 years in Qatar. Another absent nephew has worked in Kuala Lumpur longer than he has worked in Singapore.

There’s a brother who is almost a China permanent resident having been there since the early 1980s, not to live but on short stints that lasted several months a time in places like Shanghai, Beijing and Chengdu — till more recently when one factory he’s overseeing in Xian is finally done and he like all of us are getting on in age and prefer the bubble of S’pore to the wide expanse of the world.

His daughter, however, has globe-trotted for one year even be4 she had completed her tertiary education, calling many parts of the US and parts of Italy her temporary home.

Yet another brother makes such regular and extended trips to Shanghai shepherding his Singapore students to a twin school there that he feels quite an expert on the former “Paree of the East” :lol: !

I wonder how many of my nieces and nephews and their offspring — or even my younger siblings– would feel like my oldest brother feels: nowhere in the world other than Singapore feels like home? After all, unlike us – ie their parents and/or grand-parents —  the wider world would be where their own family would be scattered as more and more places would be accessible to Singapore and Singapore to those places.

By contrast, my reunion dinner at my sister’s last night was less of a thought provoking affair. It’s always good robust Chinese cooking as her late MIL used to serve the family. And my sister and her hubby have been living in the same home for the last 39 years — which is really rare in a world of rapid and constant change! :roll:

Not sure if this is exhilirating or plain depressing, especially when I consider that after many, many house moves I too have settled in one place for gasp-gasp (!!) 22 years! Have I grown roots or have I just become moribund?

Done this for 39 reunion dinners

Don’t want no discount price Govt!

Thank you!

Judging by the half empty house (based on what’s shown on Channel News Asia) today, the first day of debate on the so-called hot potato Gerard Ee’s pay reduction review, many Members of Parliament may think the same too, hopefully reflecting their constituents’ views!

I am delighted my MP wasn’t present.

I find this constant discussion of pay, discount, benchmarking etc so, so distasteful. Even my mother’s Picky Siti won’t allow continuous discussion of her worth and use to us in $-terms – and she’s a lowly FDW!

I am surprised that no MP has felt insulted enough to tell those baying to pay MPs and Ministers less — a vocal minority surely — to go fly a kite.

I would. But then I’m no MP and have no desire to be – on whichever side of the political divide. :roll:

see, no one's behind him

no one's behind him either!

Mr Bocker, when it ain’t broke…

… don’t tamper with it!

I’m prompted to write this rant after reading the letter in the Straits Times’ Forum (see below)

While I don’t agree with Mr Lim’s contention re the role of SGX (it’s been given that charter by the Government; so be it), what I think is absolutely necessary is for the public to scrutinise more closely what the SGX under its CEO Magnus Bocker has been doing — and intends to do — since he came on board.

First was the abortive and costly attempt to take over the Australian Exchange. It’s a no-brainer that it’s a no-go from day-one. Because how could Australia with its rather draconian Foriegn Investment Review Board let go of something as iconic as the country’s exchange for crying out loud! Yet SGX led by Mr Bocker tried to do a multi-billion $ Don Quixote! :roll: And in the end was left with a multi-million $ bill for something that just wasted time and diminished SGX standing.

Another very expensive and to my mind ill-conceived investment is to pump $250 million (hello, a quarter of a billion bucks, OK!!!) into making SGX’s trading platform the fastest in the world. :roll:

To what end? When there’s neither current demand– nor foreseeable demand, at least not within Mr Bocker’s tenure, I don’t think, never mind if he’s already a permanent resident.

To me, the $250 million investment is like building a restaurant that will allow Singapore to boast of having the biggest eating hall in the world — when on a real-time daily basis just some one thousand or two meals would actually be served!

While that’s a wacky enough approach, it’s quite harmless lah, as SGX got the moolah to burn mah. A white elephant or two would go nicely with the bear and bull sculptures on its premises.

The label for the wackiest move belongs to the one that Mr Bocker unveiled as a X’mas present– unless he is stopped: to dismantle the Central Depository (CDP) which holders of SGX-listed securities have come to trust and rely on over 20 years of continuous use.

The reason for giving the CDP the chop? It’s already 20 years old! And all other stock exchanges allow their brokers to run their own scripless books on securities listed on their boards. Singapore mustn’t be different!

To me, that’s as clever a reason as saying since the US runs trillions of $ deficit, Singapore should do likewise. After all, the US is a developed country and no country worthy of the accolade of”developed” should be without crippling deficits, right? :lol:

I’ve read many letters to the media regarding what a bad idea the proposed move is, with the writers fearful of rogue brokers who may make off with investors’ shares very much like scammers making off with $500K from DBS bank accounts.

That was indeed one of the reasons why the CDP was designed the way it is and it would do Mr Bocker well to trawl its history and understand the reasons before he brings in the demolition squad.

However unlike the people who fear rogue brokers, I’m more fearful of brokers who are good long-time friends who may suddenly be caught in the quagmire of a short squeeze and then beg me to help out with my few shares to enable them to cover.

In Singapore, unlike New York, London or even Shanghai, relationships and friendships aren’t of the six-degree or even five-degree separation kind; the separation is probably no more than two-degree at best.

And thanks to Mr Bocker — if he does get his way re the CDP – I won’t be able to pretend they are mistaken about what I hold, because they would know chapter and verse what I own exactly. Not a lot mayb but just enough with other clients to prevent their downfall!

Further, like one of the letter writers say, to let one’s broker know what SGX-listed shares one owns is tantamount to showing one’s bank account to another person.  I would add it’s also like showing one’s pay slip to one’s friends and relatives; not acceptable, unless one happens to be Ministers of this realm where everyone and his dog demand a right to know.

Well, 99.99999999 per cent of CDP account members aren’t political office holders, so please Mr Bockker don’t in one fell swoop put us into their net.

Let me end with one more observation and one suggestion, if drumming up income for the SGX is the real reason behind Mr Bocker’s latest brain-wave.

Observation: it’s one of the most mentally-challenged reasons to suggest that if brokers know what’s in their clients’ accounts, they would be better able to help clients manage their investments. Even my toes laughed at such an idea. Has Mr Bocker any idea what the overwhelming majority of our stockbrokers actually do? Even if they do have the expertise and inclination to give advice, can remisiers — even with assistants — handle the number of clients on their books?

Suggestion: if SGX needs more income, then why not charge CDP members a small fee, based on the number of counters each owns? Or better still charge the moribund accounts more, on the rationale that active accounts do give the Exchange income via clearing fees!

Hard to reconcile contradictory roles of Singapore Exchange

Published on Jan 10, 2012

AS AN investor of a few public-listed companies, I am concerned by the dual roles of the Singapore Exchange (SGX) (‘China Sky defends non-compliance’; yesterday).

The SGX conducts regulatory oversight and enforcement functions over companies, but on a profit-driven corporate platform.

These dichotomous roles are clearly unhelpful towards crystallising its role as an impartial regulator, given its commercial interests in managing the financial service affairs of the industry.

The defence of China Sky over its obligation to comply with SGX’s regulatory requirements raises the question of the impact of such enforcement on the exchange’s bottom line. How can the SGX assure the public that imposing a composition fine on errant listed companies does not enrich the exchange’s top line and revenue structure?

Conversely, by not enforcing its listing rules over any public-listed company, how would the SGX defend the allegation that it did not seek any special favours from such fee-paying clients?

And what would be the related opportunity cost and revenue losses where enforcement was absent?

As a leading financial centre, Singapore must be seen to offer its services to foreign and local companies without fear or favour, especially when dealing with big corporations.

The SGX should cease all commercial interests arising from its regulatory compliance duties.

3rd World here we come?

I was at Tiong Bahru Plaza earlier this evening and saw a longish queue of peeps at thePOSB/DBS Atms at Basement 1. On the first level, there was an even longer queue at the POSB branch next to Watsons!

My feeling are best summed up by Ms Eileen Yu’s post here

Perhaps the day when some Singaporean women might end up as maids in another country — as once postulated by ex Minister Mentor Lee Kuan Yew — may not be too far off? I’m not thinking of tomorrow but when those who are babies today are grown?

SMRT, floods in Orchard Road, but worse, the Ministerial pay review committee actually recommending 30 to 50+% pay cuts.

Poor Mr Gerard Ee & Co. Perhaps they think this is what the people of Singapore want. Lower pay for office holders and more transparency in arriving at the numbers.

How wrong can Ee & Co be! As witness the unhappy noises already being made re the cut. I got an email by a respected (I think) member of the bar via a relative which claimed that his toes were laughing (at the cut).

Many Singaporeans are unhappy with the way some things are done in our country; moi included. But unhappiness over ministerial pay — while most easily articulated — isn’t going to be assuaged if other spurs in the system continue to prick and bruise.

Sad. And baaaad…

Because the years of belly acheing over ministerial pay are the symptoms, not the disease.

And that is?

Leaders who instead of leading allow themselves to be swayed by all manners of inane opinion, especially those of the cyber lynch mob. :(

Did Saw see what was coming?

And I don’t mean the headlights of an SMRT train. :roll:

What i mean is the revelation by SMRT chairman, Mr Koh Yong Guan, that on Dec 7 Ms Saw Phaik Hwa, SMRT’s then CEO, had spoken to him about her desire to move on during 2012, after having served nine years.

Mr Koh didn’t say if this was out of the blue or in what context Ms Saw had expressed her desire to go.

What happened in about a week following that conversation is now widely known: SMRT suffered its worst train disruption in its history – on Dec 15 and 17.

I’m really curious.

Saw saw ahead?

Did Ms Saw see what was coming?

What many Singaporeans saw coming however is this: she was going to go sooner or later, after what happened on Dec 15 and 17. :lol:

And today she has gone — from the CEO chair at least!

2 contrasting meals in one day

Last week, I inviegled AE to take me up to Woodlands to buy more smoked pork knuckles from Wang Foong. Die-die I must eat the stuff again — and AE the good soul not only agreed to drive but also brought along chiller bags with the necessary ice-packs too.

Natch to say, we went a bit crazy and then discovering that Fassler was next door, we loaded up on fresh mushrooms (half the prices charged by Cold Storage downtown or anywhere else for that matter!) plus some fish and sauces!

But that pre-prep food venture isn’t the main course of this post.

Rather, it was the organic vegetarian cafe called Sunny Choice at Rail Mall that AE introduced me to on our way back from Woodies that not only filled my stomach and thrilled my taste buds but also provided a cure for sore eyes. The plating and taste were far superior to my usual hangout Create Healthy Lifestyle at Fortune Centre but with superior prices too!

For example, the ABC juice at Sunny costs $6, compared to $4.50 at Create which I already thot expensive, when at Clementi Mall’s basement juicer, it comes in a larger helping — for all of $3.20.

Sunny’s sushi roll (the standard of most organic veggie joints) costs $6 too, whereas Create charges $3.50. Even at the hoity-toity Sophie’s (4th level, Fortune Centre), it’s only $3.80 — at least it was when I last ate there, mayb two years ago.

Guess the extra is for the sunny ambience of the cafe.

By contrast, the same night I joined my chair yoga mates from Kampung Glam Community Club for a spot of hot pot at House of Hot Pot in Tan Quee Lan Street. The Lim yoga gurus hosted, to celebrate their 20th semester of chair yoga teaching at Kg G.

It was again a meal guaranteed to give vegetarians a nightmare as the plates upon plates of free flow pork, chicken, beef and seafood were delivered to our table. True, there was also plentiful of veggie, seaweed and mushrooms of all variety and hue but as we let the meats and the rabbit food mix in the hot pot brew of tongue tingling tastes, it’s really very hard for even true blue vegetarians to resist.

But resist one young yoga classmate did as she is a full-time vegetarian – unlike me who is vegetarian part-time and erratic! It helped too that the gurus had specially brewed what they called “the soup of love” — a non-meat, non-seafood brew for her to cook the veggie, mushrooms et al in!

Now I can’t think of a day where I ate two meals that are as different as chalk from cheese ;)

most flavorful lei cha fan

tauhu goreng with pumpkin paste

pricey veggie sushi

Hot pot butcher's brew

when veggie meets meat

Starting 2012 1st day with simple lunch

My family has few must-keep traditions. And eating lunch together on the first day of the New Year (gregorian) isn’t among the must-keep traditions. Still in recent years with mum’s growing fraility and the evaporation of her independence, there has been an effort for some of us to stay home and eat with her on landmark dates such as today – the start of a new calendar year, as it is unsconscienable to leave her to have only her maid for company at table.

Statistically speaking, given her age she may not be able to enjoy meals on memorable days with her family for many more times. No, I’m not thinking of death but of escalating physical fraility — when good food may have to be minced and mashed into oblivion for it to go down.

So, without more ado, while mum is still eating well and heartily, here is what we had for our simple lunch today.

... followed by pan-fried salmon and ikan batang cubes

starting with five-element soup

...another pork knuckle from Wang Foong with fresh mushrooms

accompanied by stir-fried greens ...

....and mashed corn pancakes, cauliflower & brocoli

I even baked a cake for dessert with the new table oven -- a X'mas pressie

there was also a fresh fruit salad